28
Jan 12

Shawty swing my way

Curious as to what we’re watching on this fine Saturday morning á la 7:45AM?

Dinosaur Train.

Image via Media Freaks

Today’s topics are going to be quite an arrangement of nuggets – a fragrant bouquet, if you will.

Speaking of bouquets, I had a domestic hair last night and decided to assemble and place a few arrangements around the house to greet my mother in law today. Props to the Piggly Wiggly for the flower selection (Sidenote: I just can’t do Harris Teeter. It makes me anxious. Am I going to need meds for my high school reunion?)

Skillz.

Iris Apfel. Know of her? Her biography refers to her as the “Rare Bird of Fashion.” I think she makes her own rules, and that’s fabulous. Anyway, I’ve read a // couple // of posts // about her recently and thought I might share.

My friend from Clemson, Holly, posted a link to a quite true and quite giggly article about American Girl dolls, and what your choice in doll says about you. I’m not going to share which one was my favorite (can you guess?!), but I have to tell you this. As I was reading the expos on each doll, I immediately thought: Lady Mary Crawley is Samantha.

Melissa from I Pick Pretty hosted a fabulous link up to the question, “How did you decide to be a stay-at-home mom?” If I could gather my thoughts on the subject, I would have written a post. Check out what other mamas had to say!

I did make the Pinterest pizza ring (delish!) for dinner and LB suggested we watch Jane Eyre. It was emolicious and wonderful (the movie, not the pizza).

Adios to the husband’s beard for the season!

Fresh faced.

And friends, that’s all I have for you this fine Saturday morning. It’s time for coffee round dos.

XOXO


27
Jan 12

My love, the toddler.

My darling, sweet, cooing 5 month old:

Look at that little chunk.

My darling, sweet, opinionated 13 month old:

TRIKES! We love trikes these days.

I had a conversation with Kris last night where we discussed toddlerhood. I thought for sure that we had a good 5 months left with a coo-ey, content, go-with-the-flow Bitty. But 2 weeks ago, a light switched and she is full-blown toddler!

Because of the summer-like temps this week (CAN I COMPLAIN FOR A MOMENT, WHERE IS MY WINTER?), we’ve spent some time at the playground, where the tricycle photo above was taken. She was fearless. She watched the older kids ride it around, and decided she wanted to try. So she climbed on it and looked at me like, “Come on, Ma. Push!” We also had playgroup yesterday and our friends have a plethora of tricycles and tractors to ride, so Baby L was in heaven.

Bitty & Daddy

We also took her to Stride Rite yesterday for her first pair of “walking shoes.” The glitzy TOMS aren’t cutting it on the playground. They’ve lost about half of their glitter!

And some other snaps from our day…

Morning toons.

Enjoying a spot o' sun.

Happy Friday! Anyone have fun plans for this weekend? Bitty’s Mimi is coming from Moncks Corner tomorrow to spend the day with us, and I’m going to plan a creative in-house date night tonight. I’m thinking about making one of those yummy vegetable pizza rolls from Pinterest and renting a movie. Have you seen anything good lately?


24
Jan 12

(Dr.) Aunt Booty visits Kenya.

Baby L’s Aunt Booty, also known as Cara Coleman, my Maid of Honor/BFF/freshman college roommate, just returned from a medical mission trip to Kenya. I’m so excited for her to share her experience with you!

Cara

I’m still recovering from a massive case of jet lag after returning home from my latest mission trip to Kenya—so, when my BFF Whitney asked me to write a little expo on my trip, I figured, “Why not?” I found out about the trip from my Aunt Laura (who introduced Whitney and me in high school—ultimately why we became college roomies!) It’s amazing how quickly things can fall into place when you just simply let them. After my trip to Uganda last August, I’ve been dying to go back to Africa, and this was definitely my chance. I left for Kenya 2 weeks ago (knowing absolutely no one on the trip) and came back with some of the best experiences I could have ever imagined having, along with a few relationships I’ll never forget.

The greatest thing about Kenya is the people. We talk about Southern hospitality all the time—what about Kenya hospitality? That’s where it’s at y’all! The people are so loving, so appreciative, so Godly. Our group consisted of about 40 or so people (25 from Georgia, 9 from Wisconsin, 2 from Canada, and one from the great state of South Carolina… that’s me!!). We had 4 doctors, 1 PA, 2 nurses, 2 dentists, 1 hygienist, a dental student (me again), and so many more important people to add to our team. Over the 6 days of clinic (4 days at Nakuru West Suburb Church and 2 days at Upendo Medical Clinic), we saw a whopping 3,941 patients. Of those 4,000, we saw about 350 dental patients, with procedures ranging from surgical extractions, composite/amalgam restorations, and deep scalings (a bunch of dental jargon for a whole lotta work!) During our devotion the first night in Kenya, Jeff (our fearless leader for the week) kept telling us to remember that our time in Kenya was mainly about the “being” and not the “doing.” I had the hardest time wrapping my head around the idea—I am a 4th year dental student, graduating from MUSC in May with a DMD degree, whose last mission trip consisted of churning over the patients and just seeing as many people as we could! Little did I know that my idea on this would change immensely over the next two weeks. After struggling with the fact that we only saw 40 dental patients our first day, I tried to go into day two with a different mindset. At the end of a frustrating day two (both physically and mentally), I remember walking out of the clinic and seeing all the people we didn’t have time to see. To them, it didn’t matter if we actually treated their dental issues at all—it was the fact that we were there, “mzungus” from the States, to touch their lives and just show that we care. Their smiles said it all—how amazing. From that moment on, the numbers didn’t matter to me. As long as I touched at least one person while in Nakuru, my job was complete! And judging by the hugs, smiles, and handshakes we received, I think we were pretty successful.

In addition to the clinic work, we also got to go tour some of the schools around Kenya. The most fascinating to me was the Nakuru Special Hills School, for special needs kids. In Kenya, children born with special needs are deemed as a burden to their families—having no “skills” to contribute to life and society, they are often left homeless. The facility was pretty poor to say the least—no running water since August, a lack of faculty and staff, beds with paper thin mattresses and no bed covers…you get the point. Even though the school is struggling, I couldn’t help but smile when I saw it. I know what you’re thinking… smile?? But think about it! Without this facility, these kids would be left homeless, abandoned, and probably dead. I couldn’t get over it! What a wonderful haven for these children! With prayers and support of teams like us, I know there is a change coming for the school. These kids have so much to live for—the love they exude is incredible. I know that God has big plans for Nakuru Hills—on His time, of course.

Contrary to what you may believe, the trip wasn’t totally about missions. We got to play a little, too! The last two days we traveled to the Masai Mara National Reserve for a safari. O…M…G… have I used the word amazing yet? I think so! Maybe I shoulda whipped out my thesaurus before agreeing to write this, Whittata ;) We saw giraffes, elephants, zebras, hippos, gazelles, cheetahs, lions, beautiful African birds, topi, wildebeests, hyenas, hartebeests, a lone rhino…. The list goes on and on! What a wonderful way to unwind before our long and grueling flight home (40 plus hours of travel, including 4 flights, 1 delay, and a 5 hour drive back to Charleston…. WOOF) Did I just complain? No way, not me!

After two weeks in Kenya, I’ve definitely come to many realizations. First and foremost, I’m by no means the perfect Christian. I need to go to church more, I need to read my Bible, I need to talk with God about more things than my little problems that really don’t matter in the grand scheme of things. I still struggle with my faith on a daily basis. Sometimes I just can’t understand why I can’t connect with God like I did when I was in high school, like my mother does, like Whitney and Kris…like so many of the faces that I met while on my trip. But it’s funny, the one thing that keeps me coming back are these people and the relationships that I see they have with Christ. The one verse that continues to remind me to stay on track is Joshua 1:9—“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid, do not be discouraged. For the Lord, your God, will be with you wherever you shall go.” I can’t tell you how many times I’m reminded of this short, yet powerful verse…while struggling with my parents’ divorce, while in Uganda, during the deaths of friends and family, and more recently, while helping all the special people of Nakuru. After such an amazing trip, it’s hard to be back at home. Yet, I’m so thankful for so many things. Naturally, the important things that I tend to take for granted: my family, my friends, my unending support group, my education, the opportunities I’ve been presented with in my short life, safe travels, health and prosperity. And of course, the American things I just couldn’t live without: cold Heinz ketchup, Diet Coke, red wine, soap operas, Facebook (well, the internet), white cheddar Cheese-Itz, french fries, my car, and my big comfy bed (is it bad that the majority of things on this list are food?… Note to self, diet begins tomorrow.)

“Bwana asifiwe!”

Kenya

Kenya

Kenya

Kenya

Kenya

Kenya


22
Jan 12

Words on Motherhood

Trying.  Oh, it’s trying.  And my tears and frustrations?  They come without warning.

We’re in a new season with Bitty.  She’s growing into this little girl.  And she’s becoming more independent.

The moments are fleeting – it seems as if the second you feel like, “I’ve got this,” the floor shifts and it’s time for new milestones and teeth and words and steps and tempers and joys.

I’m tired.  I’m more tired than I’ve ever been in my whole life and I’ve discovered that I’m more selfish and sinful than I’ve ever realized.  I can’t do this without leaning on Jesus.  I don’t know how any mother can.

I read some words tonight that were nourishment to my thirsty soul.  I wanted to store the link here so that I can go back to them again.  And if you’re a mama, and even if you’re not, chances are, you will be one day, you may like to read them too.


21
Jan 12

Saturday.

And there are your Instagrams from the past few days.

Although my kid is cute, most importantly, did you vote, South Carolina?

We did. In the rain. And I was thankful for my freedom of choice every wet step of the way ;)  And afterward, we had Dunkin’ Donuts.  Amen and amen.


20
Jan 12

Tracy

Yesterday afternoon, I found out some heartbreaking news. My dear friend and fellow photographer, Tracy Turpen, passed away a few days ago. At first, I was shocked, like I couldn’t believe it was true. And after it settled in, I just got really sad. I can’t believe she’s gone.

Never in my life have I seen someone so perfectly capture the beauty of our Lord’s creation through a camera lens. She was truly the most talented photographer I’ve ever met. There are also many precious memories that we shared with Tracy, and I will cherish them forever. She was a kind, funny, tender, and creative soul.

This week, my Bible study is on John 11 – the death and raising of Lazarus. My mom reminded me of this yesterday when we spoke on the phone, and honestly, I was like, I’m not ready for that. I’m not ready to unpack these emotions and deal with this.

I wanted to share a few photos that Tracy took of Kris and I over the years. Please take a few minutes to look at some of her other work (especially Kate & Matt’s wedding in New Zealand; one of my favorites and another tender story). Also, please keep the Turpen family in your prayers, especially her son Evander.

Charleston

Mt. Pleasant

Folly Beach

Folly Beach

Mt. Pleasant

Charleston

Mt. Pleasant

Mt. Pleasant

Charleston

Mt. Pleasant

Charleston


18
Jan 12

A little short about the corner of Palmetto and Irby.

Kris got a little creative hair last week:

Meet John Traub, owner and operator of Hey Now Hot Dogs located on the corner of Irby and Palmetto Streets in Florence, SC. Find out more about Hey Now Hot Dogs at http://www.heynowhotdogs.com/

All footage by Meadia, LLC copyright 2012. This project was shot and edited by Kris Meade. http://www.krismeade.com/


17
Jan 12

If I could make a soundtrack. Or, just call this a dramatic mix tape.

Did y’all ever use Art of the Mix? It’s kind of when I first started getting into music… around 10th grade. This was before iTunes, when we were deep in the throws of Napster/Bearshare/Limewire. I found that website and it was like… whoa. A whole site dedicated to music that I won’t hear on the radio? I’m in.

In college, I used to download all of these obscure songs just to check them out. But now, I’ve kind of found my music niche. I can’t really describe it to you other than just listing out some of the genres. Trip hop/electronic/glam rock… with lots of other stuff mixed in.

Anyway, I had kind of a weird day today and I really needed to sit down at my laptop after the baby went to sleep to just veg. I don’t get to do that a lot anymore. And I barely listen to music unless it’s the Pandora Disney station, our sing-a-long nursery rhymes in the car, or one of the 4 John Mayer albums I have in my CD player. So I started listening to Massive Attack’s Mezzanine album, and I thought to myself, I could make a killer soundtrack to a movie! Doesn’t matter what the movie is. ‘Cause we all know there needs to be a driving opening song/a few obscure ones/a love song/and a tragedy song. So, if you don’t take this for anything other than a really great mix tape… then, well, that’s all it is.

1 Roisin Murphy – Ruby Blue
2 Scissor Sisters – Take Your Mama
3 Massive Attack – Angel
4 Blondie – Heart of Glass
5 Goldfrapp – Rocket (It is SO HARD to only include one Goldfrapp song on this list!!)
6 M83 – We Own The Sky (This video totally cracks me up. A bunch of 17 year old hipsters doing what they do best… running through fields, sharing apples, and climbing trees.)
7 David Bowie – Fame (OH if you only know the flashbacks I have of listening to this album growing up, thanks for the musical influence Dad!)
8 Muse – Starlight (I could listen to this song on repeat forever and ever and ever. And it’s also best heard in the summertime with your windows down and the sound cranked alllllllll the way up.)
9 Kings of Leon – Molly’s Chambers (Same deal with Goldfrapp. How can I just include one of their songs? Just because you need this in your life, here’s a link to one of my other favorites. And turn it up.)

And that’s it! Perfect for your Wednesday morning (or late Tuesday night) playlist.

This won’t be the last mix… promise!

XOXO


17
Jan 12

A Day at the Park

Day at the Park



Plenty by Tracy Reese embellished top, $87
Dorothy Perkins cotton shorts, $39
K. Jacques leopard print sandals, $123
Amrita Singh stackable jewelry, $120
Karen Walker tortoise shell sunglasses, $180
NARS Semi Matte Lipstick in Heat Wave, $24

For some reason, I have warm weather and jorts on my mind. I also see many days of letting Bitty Bit burn off her energy in one of our local parks in my future. This, my friends, is the perfect getup for such an occasion.

Until it turns a sweltering 115 degrees in early April and I’m forced into a tank top.

Could you not just DIE over NARS’ Heat Wave lipstick? Apparently, it’s one of the colors used in the J. Crew spring catalogue from last year. I am on the search for a drug store knockoff! If you’ve found one, share the wealth!


16
Jan 12

She’s 13 months old.

It’s a whole new ballgame.

BRB when I can actually think to type.

XO

UPDATED TO ADD (as of 7:34PM)… Her top two teeth have been spotted. They are about to break through the gum. This explains everything :)